Whoever thinks that they do not need to improve their communication ought to be spanked by every person they have ever encountered. They should be forced to swim to antartica in some speedos or a bikini.
There is something about improving your communication skills that people see as unnecessary and stupid. They have a narrow focus of what can be learnt and what they already know.
The two prime suspects in thinking that you don't need to improve your communication is the false impression that you already communicate well and it's a stupid skill to learn. Do you honestly think you are a good communicator? I'd be happy to bet hundred dollars for each person who reads this that they are not a good communicator. I'd be filthy rich.
If you're so good at communicating, are you 99% confident in any family members' or friends' ability to talk to you about the most difficult, complex, time-consuming, scary, uncertain, and nervous topics? Errr no. It is rare in society for people to discuss what really matters. Things like sensitivity and emotional disclosure.
But guess what? You're more then this. By reading this today, it shows you have the willingness to explore communication. You know your life can be better with these learned skills. You've picked yourself off the ground after being hammered by the world's perception of . Your dancing on your feet and ready to start the fight back.
All you need now is to learn the skills too build your repertoire and practice them, then you'll be primed and ready to win any communications battle. posted by Joshua Uebergang at 12:25 AM
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